Take off the Grave Clothes

Thrifted St. John set circa 2006. Snakeskin bag, rose gold necklace, and enamel earrings from late 80's to early 90's.

Clothes hold memories. 

And as an avid thrift and vintage shopper, I wrestle with the idea that I am wearing someone else's memory. 
Do you remember what you wore to experience your last joy? What about your last tragedy? 


I vividly remember what I wore to commemorate the saddest day of my life. A sleeveless cable knit sweater matched with an a-line pleated white skirt. Even though I never wore them after that day in April, I carried them with me for several moves. I felt like it was betrayal to the memory if I were to get rid of them.
As my wardrobe grew and storage of unworn items was taking over my closet, it was time to let go of those "grave clothes". 


My favorite thrifted items are from glory brands of the mid 80's to late 90's. St. John, Escada, Fendi, Carlisle, DVF.. brands that were representative of an independent woman. 


I like to believe that I am conjuring the energy of independence and joy that's imbedded in my new to me clothes. That their pristine condition is symptomatic of their previous owner’s tenacious care associated with positive lived experiences.   
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That I am wearing garments of praise.